Why I don't believe you should cast love spells...
Let me start off by stating that we are all connected through energy. ALL of us. If you are giving out good energy, you'll receive good energy in return.
Ever noticed, when you are in a pukey mood that everything and anything can go wrong that day (getting out of bed the wrong side can cause this), its because your energy is attracting it. Simple, Law of Attraction.
There are spells for anything and everything, most come down to INTENTION. However, you cannot and should not mess with free will. Why would you want to 'make' someone love you? Love is a choice.
So you choose to do the love spell, not only on your intended partner, but you do it on yourself too.
It flies right back at you like a boomerang. Now, you both become magically, unnaturally obsessed with each other.
This in turn becomes a really sticky, codependent, toxic relationship. Maybe it involves violence.
At the very least it involves emotional abuse, because overriding someone else’s free will is in itself a form of emotional abuse. So you put that in the mix when you did the spell, and now it’s there.
I spend a lot of my time and energy undoing the damage of spells cast in the name of love. Please NEVER bind anyone or anything unless you know what you are doing and prepared to pay the price for that!
If you want love, you need to give it first. TO YOURSELF, first and foremost. How can you offer your heart if you don't love yourself first? Its a cliche but so true.
If you are experiencing difficulties in a relationship, perhaps your partner isn't being as loving as you'd like, treat THEM how you want to be treated and watch it come back to you ten fold!!
If the person you loves leaves, let them go, no matter how much it hurts. IF it is meant to be, then the Universe will reunite you both. It could take 2 weeks, 2 months, 5 years or even 30 years, but if you are truly meant to be together, then the Universe will make it happen.
Whilst you are waiting, heal yourself. Learn to love yourself. Only then will the energetic space be created to allow that magical person into your life.
Much love
Charlotte xx